Hi Guys,
I am living abroad and pursuing my masters at the moment. I am in love with a guy from last year and half and we both want to marry. His parents are aware of our relationship and are happy about it but before they give green flag for our marriage they want to know what my parents have to say about our relationship.
Now the problem is in my family only my mother and some relatives know about my relationship except my father. I can't tell my father for next two months because my studies finish in next two months and don't want to spoil it. If my father comes to know about our relationship he will be angry and upset and take me back India. At the moment he also finding someone to get me married and always ask to send some photographs or to talk some or the other guy. I cant say anything to him but just do what he says for the sake of my studies.
Now my mother also says she is not going to support me because she is very scared of my father and they anyway don't have a good relationship between them. Also once my studies finish my father is planning to come and take me back to India. I am sure if I go back my life in India will be hell and they will get me married to some one else.
My mother says that I should take my own decision and don't come to India even if my father emotionally blackmail me by saying I will die and so forth.
So i am in dilemma now what should I do? If i stay back my father will break his relationship with me and also he will not be happy if I tell him about my boyfriend in next two months. If i go back to India my life will be spoil due to my relatives as they will pressurize to marry someone else.
I asked my boyfriend that we can do court marriage but he is not in favor of that.
So i am in a mess at the moment cry almost everyday but can't find a solution to this. Please friends help me out. Give me some ideas how can I improve my situation. I don't want to go back to India.
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