As u said i should just sit unmarried and wait for their decision to change. But what is the time limit. My friends are saying before taking any decision just think once that if u get married no one from your family will talk to you as your parents will not let them keep contact with you. They said its only till the honeymoon period that everything looks good but after that when monotony sets in girls tend to miss her parents and family. They said keep in mind that then their will be no one to share your feelings from your family, you will not be invited to any family gathering. Can you tackle all this. If yes then only go ahead otherwise leave him and do what your parents say. My cousin said if by chance you get married on your own and your father gets an attack, blame would be on you. She said since your father dint let his own sister have love marriage then he must be thinking what will she say if he allows his own daughter.
I mean people are putting me under all soughts of pressure, fear and guilt. I said to them that since childhood till now i have always done whatever my parents said without questioning them. I never realised that even i can use my brains and have a choice. I have always made their choices mine. And i never had any probs with it as i was not aware that i too can think. I have never taken any decision on my own. But really this time i want to do what my heart syas is right. And i dont want to feel guilty about it. Iam ready to face all consequences.
I dont know till when should i wait and what will happen after that but yes iam waiting and waiting........lets see what happens.
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