We are both engaged respectively to other families and will never be happy with that marriage. We really want to get married but both our parents are against it. Is it worthwhile to listen to parents and remain unhappy for the rest of life. I am 34, she is 29. To top it all my father is seriously ill.
What is the best move? She wants me to do something (elope,etc) before her marriage (which is very soon, all arrangements are made) and looking for opinions.
How will the situation evolve at their side? Any legal problems and whatever, we want to be ready for once we take this step.
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