Re: marriage issue...pls suggest me what should i do?
@nicegirl..........
well.......hi.....dear and hope u r fine..................and please don thank me i just want each and every couple to live happily that is what nothing else................i've seen misunderstandings..............breakups........... ..in front of me.........ppl just say move on and they do move on..........u r vry dedicated towards ur love and just keep it up dear...........u both r lucky to have found each other so plzzzzzzzzz no matter what happens don seperate not at ne point coz being in love is the most beautiful feeling in this world...............one things for sure dear u don seem like u r so tough that u don love ur parents...................coz u love them from inside but u r not able to express....................specially to ur father.................u know y coz u haven't said it to him in so many yrs...................let's try this u express ur love to ur loved one................might be that u say to him a hundered times that u love him.................and also he might say the same thing to u may be two hundered times.......................when u both r together it might seem like it was for just an hour when u both r together for hours...............right...............feel it dear that is true love....................for sure 100%................coming to ur parents............they might've never ever told u on ur face that they love u that does not mean they don love u.............u never know but ur parents might love u more than ur imagination u never know dear...............about the past i know it's tough forgetting ur past for u but ur future depends on ur present and not ur past....................ur parents will never express their love towards u coz they don know how to do it that is y u will have to take the initiative make them understand ur loved one is also imp to u as they r for u to live in this world.........ur father was wrong at some point but did that affect ur confidence did ur mother leave u in such a condition........he has a daughter who is 2day on her own independent standing on her own feet he might be proud of u...........love needs to felt dear and not to be shown..........do u sometimes know what ur loved one wants before even he asking u for it............it might also happen that u know his mood is off widout even he telling u i know these things happen but y............coz u feel it from ur heart...........u cannot show ur love to ur parents nor they can show u it's abstract no one can see love but u can feel it...... ur parents feel it for u just that u r not able to see it...........they won't be able to coz if u r not willing to see it u won't see it even if god himself comes and tells u..........see this situation positively and u will succeed.......dear it all depends on how u see it.........if u see ur father in the wrong sense u won't see his positive side........it's same as if u see the world upside down u'll see everything upside down.......and the moment u r straight u'll see it normally right.........................ur parents won't understand nor they would like to talk to ur would be at this point so i would suggest u to let him handle it at his end that is at his place and u do it at ur's...................once ur father is wid u ur mother will automatically come to ur side..............and father's are very soft heartend when it comes to their daughters to convinence them..................let me give u a trick.................start like this.............at first just small talks wid ur father a simple hi or take care or good night will do................u can even ask him bout how his day has been............and that u just wanted to talk to him a casual stuff..................kinda daily gossip..........he'll surely notice the change tell him u just want a change and that u like sharing things wid him.............then one day when u both r strongly gelled up and used to each other................say sorry to him.........now listen carefully........... this is the most important part............u have to apologize............from ur part..............for being rude to him...........for everything u've felt for him..............let me tell u one thing dear..............u don have time for hating neone in this world u never know what might happen live ur life to the full............so do it from ur side he will realize it dear and then slowly-2 tell him bout this guy make him talk to him alone i'm sure this will work out after all it's all bout love so has to be.........................take ur time..................express ur love to ur parents just as u do to ur loved one u'l notice the difference dear it's just wonderful..............just imagine and fell the moment where u and ur parents and ur loved one r wid u nd how happy u r thats life live the moment.............and i'm sure u will...............don worry jus go for it...............one thing to be remembered if u want ur love and ur parents.........................don loose hope..................hav confidnce in urself................take good care of urself..........so u can take care of ur loved one ur parents and everyone round u.................most imp..........no matter what happens jus don loose on ur patience.....................TAKE CARE GOD BLESS U BOTH.........................
"Smile always u never know who is falling in love with ur Smile..........wid love...........AJ"