Please advise:
I had talked with a boy over the phone about a year as he was in US and I in India. It was a proposal thru matrimonial advt. On the phone and chat he promised me to marry me at all cost because he said he loved me and liked me very much. In the meantime his parents and sisters too visited me and liked me. He came last month and we met for the first time face to face and then too he admired me and praised me and asked for getting married soon. My mother over the phone asked the boy to keep me at a city where i can do job also and not in his village. she asked him to either buy a house or rent ahouse and leave me there till my visa process completes. And he agreed to it. finally he fixed the marriage date and all was well. He had given me some electronics goods, clothes and jewllery too which he had brought for me from states. But suddenly four days before marriage he called me and said that I cannot marry you as my sisters are against this wedding. after that he didnt picked the phone though i called him thousand times and also texted to him. He didnt talked and responded. Few days after that my mom called his sister and she said that we cannot buy a house and this was a condition; the girl will have to live in village with us or at her parents house after marriage till the boy takes her to US. My mother agreed to this too and also asked sorry from them requested them for marriage. But they didnt responded in a positive way. Again my mom called them and requested that if they are not willing to marry then they must take their things back as we cant keep those goods anymore. to this she hung the phone. We also called the boy from other source where he accidently picked the phone and requestedhim to take his things back but he replied that he wont take them back. When I too somehow talked to him he said he loved me but cant marry me and to throw the things in trash. Please kindly advise I do not wish to keep his things. I wish to return them at any cost but how to do this. He no longer talks to me and has switched off his mobile his parents too insult us and hang the phone. What to do where to return the things? Or what is he upto? why is he not talking. No one in his family is agreeing to take things back they say that it is between boy and girl. Why is he silent. Fine he is not interested but he should take things back. pls help as he will leave shortly from India.
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