Hi i am shruti
I am 25 yrs old... Can any one suggest me ways of convincing my parents... My boy friend is 30 yrs n he is my classmate we both r graduates ..n want to go for post graduation... His parents r worried about his marriage that he should marry now as he is 30.. He has spoken about me in hishome and every one is happy.. But want us ti get married soon... We r in a relationship since 4 years... But the problemis with my family..even we belong to the same caste... My best friend has poisoned my parents mind about my boyfriend... My mother knew about my relationship since begining.. She was a bit uncomfortable with my choice... But every thing was smooth... N she even teased me by his name... But situation became worse when my father came to know about my relationship n he initially said ok infront of me n asked my best friend about my boyfriend.. She completely told all things about him which should not be told... Whatever he is i love him n he loves me too... We accepted our past n respect each other... But my father feels he is most unsuitable guy for me n he has made me against my parents.. He feels i am immature to have taken such a decision...he eeven took me to a psychiatrist for a brain wash..n to extract my feelings thru the psychiatrist.. I have failed repeatedly in my postgraduate entrance exams as i am not able to concentrate on studies...my father wants me to concentrate on studies first as he to is at the same level in acedemics but he works n earns a good salary... He is financially good but nat when compared to my family... But i am ready to adjust with him in all walks of life... N my dad wants his son in law to run his buisness or daughter to run his buisness... N he is also angry that i am not helping him in his work... His parents r ready to talk to my parents but my parents r not even ready to listen to them... I have an option to elope with my boyfriend,, but as i love my parents a lot i cant do this to them... I have convinced them last year n i failed in my exams... They r upset with me... They want me to get into postgraduation first n then they vl think about our relation ship later on.... But my boyfriends parents r eager to get him married... N cant wait..n they dont trust my parents anymore.... I cant talk to any one about this in my family my mom hates my boyfriend now... She wants me to get married to a rich guy.... My father wants his son in law to run his buisness but my boyfriend has to take care of his father n he cant do that..n i forgot to mention that he is from north n i am from south... Plz help me as this is high time ,,,,i have given exams n waiting for results.... But i need to answer my boyfriend and his parents as they say they cantwait anymore.... I am fed up of this attitude of my parents ... Plz help me ....
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