Hi,
I m married with 2 small kids, me & my wife faught so many times & during that time I am not knowing what I am doing while my anger raises many a times I bet her, she used to go to her mom & dad stay for some days they used to calm us & send her back, many a times I tried to convince her that since I have such weekness I requested not to make me angry, not to do anything that makes me angry, but she never supported that further she is also such bad tempered that she will raise against me if somethings she dont like, I lost my parents while I am 5yr old I was raised by my aunt(father's sister), my childhood is such that I had experienced so many incidents & maybe due to that what I am now is I am, I thought after having such a bad experiences in life I would find my life partner who understands me unselfishly & do some sacrifices but unfortunately not that supporting, she is so much possessive & never showed generous attitude towards others. Due to which many of my promises towards her failed now she lost her faith in me, she totally stopped listening me at all & my anger continues, I even requested many times that we shall approach psycriatist for that she says that she never knew before marriage that I am psyco & had she knows about it she would not have married me at all, now I see that my kids (2+ yrs girl, 8months boy) are in dainger that they would come across a similar situation I had experienced. Unfortunately she is not that listening to anyone it is that her own will & wish she has continued her relationship so far with me, I dont want my kids undergo such situation that I had experienced not knowing what to do, presently I am out of job which is more problem creating for us. Please advise
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