I met a guy and fell in love with him he was one of my relative , he was a married man with a girl who belongs to the same city of mine but his wife used to live separte from her at her parents after 4-5 months after their marriage and he is stiil not in mood to live with his wife our relation continue for 2.5 years due to his wifes behaviour , i accepted his propsals bcz i thougt that we will be able to get married after some time when his wife will give him the divorce now the problem is that his wife is not ready to give the divorce to him,he is a very good guy and always help me as he was senior in age also and education also, now thw problem is that before 2 months a guy came in my life and he is from the same cast as mine i mean to say that dere will be no proble in getting married if i will tell my parents nd both of the guys love me too much but the diiference between them is that the married guy is very serious due to his problem and his nature also in comparison to new guy .i told my b.f about the new guy and have a serious discussion dat we should over our relation now bcz your wife is not raedy to let you go and i m not sure that my parents will allow me to get married with you because to get married him was only 10% sure, as my parents will not accept the relation as of the married man secondly his wife was from the same city then obviously her parents will make pressure on parents if we decided to marry and thirdly he was in that relation that we cannot marry so thinking on these parameters i decided to give him up but as i told him he let me away and he is very sad and not having any contact with me , i m having immense deep feeling for him that i am unable to to forget him and also not maintaing my relation with the new guy . i m very confused that what should i do ??? i m not fogeting my old b.f and not able to make healthy relations with the new guy and new guy is ready to married with me and he had told his parents and his mother also likes me and wanted to make me her daughter- in- law.but my parents are not aware about both the guys what shoul i do??? (plz give the serious reply as it is the matter of anyones life)
i m not able to take decision whether i should be with the person who is married and in problems or live my life with the guy who is not maaried and maariage problem will not be the hindrances ,
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