Hi,I am 23 and my girlfriend is 28.We are in relationship from last 4 years and we want to get married.We are from different caste and different state.My family is ok with the marriage if girl's parents are ok.They are not ok for marriage if girl's parents are not ok. Girl's parents are totally totally against this marriage.And there looks no chance in future to.Even my girl is trying to convince them.
The problem girl's parents have is I am from different caste and different community.Apart from this my girl is eldest in whole finally.Not only his family...among all family of her relatives..eldest girl.
One thing is very clear that there is no point to get married to someone else.Neither for her nor to me.Just no point.
I just want to ask some questions :-
(1) What should I do if her parents at last says "a total no"?
(2) Should I convince my parents to go and bring her to my home when her parents her not ready?
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