Hi,
I am 27 years old male pursuing my MBA. I have been in a relationship for the past 7 months with a girls in my college. She is very attractive, talented and popular. I am simple, reserved and have limited friends. Initially it was all bliss and we used to love being with each other all the time. We both confessed that we were thinking of spending our lives together. But after a couple of months, arguments and fights started disturbing our relationship. And it has been getting worse with time. We have reached a stage where we do not even need a reason to fight.
My girl friend's approach to a fight is to snap it and say let's break up it's not working out. and I try to make it up by accepting my mistake even when I don't believe the entire fault is mine. She complains that I raise small issues and don't let them go while my feeling is that she tries to clearly avoid them which gets irritating. I accept my mistakes quite easily while she doesn't do it due to her ego.
It seems to me that I am compromising too much in this relationship. It hasn't been once that she has come back to me to get things working again while I have done it so many times. She puts all the blame on me for the fights and says it's in my nature which is not true as I don't normally fight with other people. Although I know that she loves me and I love her too as we still love being with each other and find it difficult to be away. I am on an internship for 2 months and it is getting very tough to pass as we still fight on phone and my ability to get things back is limited. I try my best to avoid the fights but I have thi nature of solving problems and then moving on while she prefers to ignore them.
Please help.. I don't want this to end.
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