Hi,
I'm 20 yrs old. I'm in love with a guy who is 10 years older than me. Age doesn't a matter since my dad is 12 years elder than my mom. But my parents are not convinced in the case of love marriage. I have an elder sister. She was in love with a guy 3 years elder than her. My parents came to know about her love and started opposing it thro various ways such as disconnecting communication facilities, watching her all the 24/7 time and lot. But at last, she eloped; hurting parents to the extreme They don't use to shout or scold a lot. They just talk softly (basically both my dad and mom are soft & sensitive characters). Being so, I'm not able to talk about my love to my parents. I'm not ready to hurt them again as my sister did. The basic reason for their opposition for love marriage is the only thing - that our relations; kith & kin wont support for this. Ours being an orthodox family, my parents are deeply concerned with relations, their thoughts and their views. My parents need to face heavy disrespecting and insulting occasions among my relations if I did it. (Already my parents are facing such troubles due to sister's elope). This is really a ****ing behaviours of relations .
I could never give up my lovable guy; also unable to convince my parents. No problem from his side. His parents are ready to accept me as their daughter-in-law.
Currently my parents are doubtful on me whether I'm in love with any external boy. They started watching my each and every activity. Both of my mom and dad never use to talk frankly to me. Some of their indirect activities making me to feel so bad. I don't have any friends to share all my feelings. I request you to give me some solution for this problem. I'm in a dark hole of my life Please help me out friends!!
Thanks in advance.
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