Hi All,
I am in a long distance relationship for the last 3 years. It was a wrong bbm pin mistakenly added which led us to start interacting over bbm.. Initial one year we did not chat much. But conversation picked up and we soon fell for each other... He sends me all those lovey dovey msgs and says he loves me alot. He never talks much about his family except that he once told me about his mom dad sister etc. Even his business i do not have much clarity off except a petrol pump he visits. He added me on facebook 2nd yr of our relationship. He talks about meeting but has never made first move. I am a single independent girl working on a high end job. I easily have guys in the proximity wanting to be with me but i want to ignore all of them and go for him. Is it because of the mystery surrounding him or is it love? As he never made the effort to meet finally i have decided to go to Jaipur (where he resides) meet and finally decide for the relationship. We rarely talk on the phone like once in months. we have never skyped or facetimed(as he does not like it). He sends me lot of intimate forwards whcih i do not like and have told him many times to stop. He does speak of having life with me marriage could be on cards but we have never like normal couples kept cute names, talked of kids, life with each other, moving ahead. Its not that he does not have time and resources to make it here (as he recently had opened a hotel and their family has a pump and he does have a business in partnership) So i am sure it is something else. I am too tempted to be in this relationship. I generally tend to build walls around me and dont let many people let in. I have just 1 best friend and my free time is spent with mom dad, my best friend and exclusively my work. This is one thing i am unable to sort for myself. Please help me out. Should i visit him and sort things out or just walk away and look for love in real thn this fantasy of wasting my time money and emotions over him. Also i do not have friends residing near to his whereabouts and have tried background checks which have all proven waste of money. Can somebody guide me pls
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