Hi,
I am a 28 year old lady and in love with the guy of same age but in different community.We want to marry each other.Guy's family is ready but my parents are very adamant about me getting married in different culture.My father has always criticized almost everybody who has opted for love marriage.He has this notion that all other communities don't treat our daughters nicely and therefore,marriages do not work.I tried to explain him by all sources and means that guy is good and i will be pampered like i am being at my own home.He is very stubborn and very emotional.He has retired from his govt job last Aug.I was his favourite child and have lived all my life according to his wish.I told him several times that i have always followed his wish but this time he can make an exception by following my wish.But he has stopped talking to me at all.I stay at different city because of my work so they does not reply to my calls,messages and moreover my mother too is helpless as it's her husband who is at stake.My dad just locks himself in a room and sleeps whole day,cooks his own food and does not speak to anybody.On the other hand,my BF is a gem of a guy.He adores me a lot and he has all the qualities i need in my hubby.I have no clue what to do as my parents are shrinking day by day.
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