In Hinduism:
***For Swayamvara parvathi mantra japa for success in love and marriage
Swayamvara parvathi Manthra:
"Om Hreem Yoginim Yogini Yogeswari Yoga Bhayankari Sakala Sthavara
Jangamasya Mukha Hridayam Mama Vasam akarsha Akarshaya Namaha " - Swayamvaraparvathi Mantra.
This is the most powerful mantra, to Parvathi Devi, wife of Lord Shiva.
you can find videos about this on youtube and also some websites which may help you out on this.
Recite this 1008 times.
You can pray to other couple Devas & Devis, or to whomsoever you have belief in and are seeing positive results with.
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In Christianity:
You can pray to Jesus or Mother Mary and St Joseph
or to Saint valentine, who is considered to be the epitome of love, for he had laid down his life
to help unite couples.
Prayer to Saint Valentine
Dear Lord, who art high in the Heavens,
Giver of Love and Passion,
And He who strings the heart’s cords,
Lead the Lovers this day, February ten plus four.
The day during the month of two,
When the date is the perfect number of God
Greater two souls and two hearts.
Some Loves are fleeting ,
But that which is built on you will never fail.
So guide the Lovers to know what is to be.
Your truths the Lovers’ mouths should speak,
For Your truth is that which is honest to the heart.
Only this, then, should pass over the red lips of the Lovers.
Your art, the Lovers simply a medium.
It is only with True Hearts that You can create a Masterpiece,
So let the Lovers remember that their Soul’s Desire
Is the one for which You light their Fire.
And let it be You who creates the Art of the Lovers;
The art of two into one.
Amen
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In Islam:
BISMI ALLAHI ALRRAHMANI ALRRAHIMI
In the Name of Allah, the All-
beneficent, the All-merciful.
(Keep repeating the above as much as you can with belief.)
OR
-Dua 182 According to Biharul Anwar to invoke the almighty Allah that a grown up boy or girl be suitably married recite the
following du-a'a 100 times daily for 40 consecutive days after any obligatory salat.
“Make easy (my difficulties), by Your superabundant favours, O’ the Most Mighty.”
Sahlam Bi Fadhlika Yaa `Azeez
You may look up the other duas for marriage on the net.
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And no matter what religion you are, pray to whomsoever you believe and have positive faith / belief
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Dr.skys' prayerguide:
When one prays, to whomever one believes, be it God or jesus or buddha or Parvathi Devi or allah etc etc. one should hold a sankalpa / wish / strong positive intention. (prayers or requests should always be positive / good wishes for oneself and for another.)
Before one goes to pray one should remove anger / hate or other negative emotions that one harbors for self and others. One should be forgiving to the self(remove guilt), and to others. What is the reason for this other than it being good for the self and the person against whom the negative emotions are directed towards?
God or the creator has given human beings the abitliy to create. It begins with an idea or thought. Thus many inventors, scientists, artists etc have created many useful ingenious things for the benefit of human beings. And likewise there are others who have created things which have been destructive to mankind when not used judiciously. It all began with a thought or a dream or a goal. So be careful with your thoughts. They have energies. Hence, always wish well for the self and for others.
If there is someone who is giving you difficulties, just pray that the Lord Almighty changes their heart,soul, mind and their actions without hurting them(the same goes when you have made mistakes or have hurt someone by intention or without intention). And if necessary to distant that person from you or to cut off that relationship so both can be at peace. If it is someone whom you have responsibility towards, like your parents or children or someone whom you have been placed responsibility(one who cannot take care of himself / herself) with in life,
you have to pray that the negativity between both of you should vanish with time and possibly find someone who would take care of that person in a good way; but not leave the responsibility.
When one prays or repeats the same prayer or mantra over and over, we create the power of creation within us...something similar to electricity. And it must be used for our benefit and not misdirected. But most of us are not 100% focused or have a completely calm mind, the mind is always active or full of thoughts, some good and some not so good. We all have daily stresses, frustrations, tensions in the environment and we sometimes tend to take it out on ourselves or the ones near and dear to us.
What to do in this case?
1) Do minimum of 9 rounds of nadi shodana. If you are praying for prolonged periods, then one can do more, but do not overdo it till your body adjusts. It is best to learn more about this and take the advice from a yoga practitioner / teacher. This nadi shodana is an internal cleanser and transforms the self to a calmer and more peaceful being. It is quite powerful. If you are on a religious or spiritual path then learn to do this.
Learn from a yoga teacher. And remember this is not an aerobic exercise to exert your body. In yoga one should do as much as one can bear without exertion, the body and mind needs to adapt to the changes.
so just do one or two times of nadi shodana initially and see the effects on your body and gradually increase.
2) One can go through the cleansing meditation daily.
3) change your diet. Stop caffeinated beverages, such as coffee, tea, soda. Do not take spiciy or chilly food which can make one to be more on the edge and angry.
4) Learn to be understanding towards self and others, know that there are many facing stress / tensions / problems in life just like you and sometimes they tend to take it on others, which can make the next person angry if they rub the person in the wrong way thus creating a negative chain reaction. So try to be understanding and forgiving. When one forgives someone, you unlink the negative chain from being a part of you. And you can also pray continuosly or bless the wrong doer, thus he/she loses the power to do harm towards you. This sort of cleanses your past karma or past lives karma or the negative hurdles or negative forces of the journey of life one must encounter in order to reach higher stage. Remember that the others are just a part of a play of your own creation(of the past or present) or what you have to face in this life. You can change your creation at any time with will.
On the other hand if one reacts negatively to the wrong doer, you take the negative karma and one must ask for self-forgiveness and remove one’s guilt and make remedies(through prayer or positive action) to reach higher. So better to wish within yourself to the wrong-doer : forgiveness,peace,wisdom and love and point out their mistakes in a nice manner.
Along with positive forces there are also negative forces in this world that influence people to do harm to others. If there are no negative forces, life on earth will be peaceful and no one will harm the other.
5) Best time to pray is between 4 to 6 Am in morning when the surroundings are calm, this is also supposed to be a good period for prayer.
If you are not able to pray with a peaceful or calm mind then better to ask someone who is. But it is best to train oneself to do so slowly and gradually and to continue with this habit daily throughout one’s life.
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And know that God is love and love is God, everything else other than love is negativity.
I will give you an example of love's transformation. Buddha was walking along with his disciples on a certain path. A certain individual who had murdered about more than 100 people, had cut of his victims thumbs and wore a garland made out of it. When he saw Buddha, he raised his sword and ran towards Buddha to kill him. Buddha stood still. When he reached Buddha, he was immediately transformed by his immense aura of love that he dropped his sword and fell on Buddha's feet and asked Buddha for forgiveness. And later that person started preaching about Buddha and God to other people.
There are many such examples with jesus , many swamis and saints.
So know this when you pray, only love and everything good is God and everything else other than love is not.
Be Godly and lovely and may those prayers be answered.
Wish you the best,
Dr.Sky
(Allopathic Dr, Spiriutalist, Relationship Advisor)
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