Hi all,
Im a 22 yr old grl in luv with my soulmate .Our luv is now 4yrs old.. I read Pulkit’s article and found dat v did almost all wt he has mentioned, with my man’s family, except d last phase of disclosing our luv to his parents.His family members really lik me a lot and dey never forget to invite me fr important occassions dat happen in their family.He has an elder sis who is yet to get married, aftr which, v guess things wil be easy to handle in his side..The difficulty will be in my side. An incident dat hapned 4yrs ago is d reason fr dis difficulty.My bro read my conversation wit my man(who ws jus a best frnd of mine den).Dat very conversation itself made my bro and mom mistake our frndshp and der ws a huge prob at home aftr wch i ws pushed to a situation to stop contacting him..but v couldnt do it more dan 3 days..so our frndshp continued and eventually turned into luv.he s not jus a lover to me.Rit frm d day v wer committed i m finding a different and more of a responsible man in him.he says he misses me a lot but he spends more time in work and plannin to build his career in a betr way.he has a gud plan of things to do b4 our marriage and gettin himself settled so dat my parents wil understand dat i ll really be happy wit him aftr marriage.i can see a gud husband in him now itself.he takes a lot of financial risks frm d money dat he has earned to do MS abroad to get gud status and whenever i fight wit him fr not spendin more time with me, his answer wud be " aftr marriage i shudnt say NO to whatever u ask.. I want u to be always happy and i have to bring myself to a position wer i can afford to get u whatever u wish".He loves me a lot. Also my world is jus my parents and him.I cant even imagine or dream of livin wit someone else.One gud sign in my family is dat,all d marriages dat hapned in my family in our generation(that is, my cousins) are luv marriages and my dad and others told YES to al dose marriages and my family has mingled well wit d new comers too.So i have a hope dat my family members' mindset towards luv has changed a bit.But d prob is, my mom and bro already hate him and i fear hw i ll tel dem abt our luv i have hope dat my dad may frst oppose but den he ll accept coz he generally thinks practically and once he gets to kno abt my man, he ll understand dat my man is trustworthy enuf to get me married to him. How shud i deal wit my mom and bro? i m sure my bro wil nevr accept dis.Only aftr our marriage, when he himself experiences d gud qualities of my man, my bro wil accept him.I jus want to convince my mom without hurting her she ll definitely cry a lot..i need d courage plus I shudnt hurt parents too much . Pls help me ppl...!
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