i read the solutions to the problems in this forum.m surprised to see that nobody is interested in the parents viewpoint about love.although mostly in india.there are stupid reasons for not allowing love marriages.but u just cant generalize this reason for all the parents.there are some other concerns also.they think about u.they have grown u up.they know u.and they know marriages and even life.and even love.they know it all.they have experienced it.they can see what u cnt see.
when u r in love with someone.its a gud thing.u shud try and try hard n very hard to be with that person.bt if ur parents are not at all agreeing on this matter.even after u hav tried a lot of times.its better u do as ur parents want.why to be stubborn .how can u forget the amt of love and care they have given u in their lifetime.they have invested whole their life in growing u up.giving u education.or whtever.and a person shd stop being selfish nd stop hurting their parents for a person they'v known only for few years.
life isn't easy.there wud be times when u'l need them the most .more than the person u are marrying..
its just that u shd think abt them also.they dnt want anything wrong fr u.they are concerned.they've seen life.they knw wht all u need in life.they just want the best for u.
and also think abt the age of ur parents..
50 years around.ur father is getting tired of working and stress.his eyes are losing the shine.he wants his son to start taking the responsibilities.its enough time that he has taken care of u.now its ur time.he wants his daughter to be as happy and safe as she ws with him.he's already crying in heart that her princess wud not be with her anymore.he's already losing the hope.at such a drastic age.apart from all this.in his personal thoughts.he's already thinking that.have i been a successfull person in my life. have i done good or bad in my life.
and ur mother.she's already miserable.she's going through menopause.mood changes.depression.she's already feeling miserable abt her life.how ur father treated her in old times or her in laws.she doesn't that for u...
and mumma's boy.u were.the most special one in her life.she wants a gud wife fr u. not that irritating one. someone who can take care of u as she did .she wants someone to think abt her , help her...
its their second childhood coming.u cnt be cruel to them.u can do all by ur own now.bt dat doesn't mean u'l make their life more miserable.
Love someone and marry also. bt not at the cost of ur parents happiness
THINK PROS AND CONS BOTH. BEFORE U COME TO THE FINAL DECISION.
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