I have read most of the post from your blog and I am quite impressed with the way you have taken a practical approach for everything. I have read many blogs but I think you can give me a good advice.
I am an plastic engineer working with a reputed company, has 2+ years of experience, 23 years of age now, never married, comes from a middle class family lives in city(Hindu family but I do not believe in any religion.) from Gujarat. I am in a relationship with a Muslim girl (20 years of age and she is studying intigrated MSC)
She is from Kolkata . We met each other through a common friend and since then we came close to each other. Her family members know me very well. They like me a lot.
Most of her family and friends are not that much educated and settled in village. Her father also works in surat and she has a younger brother who is now in 10th class(S. S. C) . Over the period of time her mother sensed that may be we are getting close to each other which is why she asked her to maintain distance from me and also told her to brake friendship to me so that she can be distracted from this attraction and may be get on with her new life.
Once my parents meet that girl and as per their reaction i don't think so they will ready for our marriage.I already told about my love to my parents.
Our parents sacrifice too many things for us. So we decided we will marry with the permission of our parents otherwise we will committed suicide.
For her, her father's smile and and reputation is everything. She can do anything her father want. Still her parents is not aware of our relationship.
So once we decide there is happiness of two family behind our break up. And we did it.
But as u know about human behavior. I'm feeling so sad and lonely and tried to convince her to come back.
We are still in contact and want to convince our parents to marry us.
She is so scared to talk with her dad b'coz once in her family something happens and told her if she do anything that harm her father's reputation he will kill her. As a Muslim parents may be this is not just normal thing. May be he will so she scared.
But her father is very kindly with me so i thing once i should try to convince him. But by the thought of her feature punishment i scared if I'm fail to convince him.
So may be i thing u r the one who can help me. How can i convince her to come back and we will get married with our family's permission. I'm not able to live without her. I tried to do better and better so her father feel relax for her feature if she is with me.
Pls help me how can i get her back and convince her parents. Once her parents are ready I'll manage with my parents..
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