My boyfriend and I are together since one andhalf years, right from the start I told him about a past relation with another guy which lasted on and off for about a year....now that was the only relation I had before this guy of mine and we did not completely get physical.......now my boyfriend whom I loved a lot inspite of that my family is against intercaste marriage, n I want to marrry him keeps on asking me repeatedly to assure him that I didnt have a physical relation with the past guy........I convince him always, n he gets convinced too........n he asks me this every 1 or two months N Iget so distressed every time and I cry that I LOVE HIM N NOBODY else still he asks me the same reassurance every 2 months or less...........this time he asked me to send him a mail in writing that I didnt have sex with the past guy.........I dont think its good to do..........it is like I have to carry this relationship and all my life he will read this mail and get convinced that I m pure........I find it disgusting and it arouses self guilt in me..........though I did nothing wrong in it.......I am confused..........I am thinking of leaving this man cos I cant risk a lifetime of uncertainty............moreover he has had such problems in past that he calls he has some obesession with thoughts..........I am well settled financially............he is also in good position...............Kindly advise what to do................please
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