Hi All. I am from Hyderabad, Am a private employee. Me and my girl are in love from 4 years . I am Hindu and she is a Muslim. We respect our own religions. And we respect each other about religious beliefs. We both Love each other alot and can't live without each other. We tried to convince our parents at both houses in all ways. Nothing worked. Asked my cousin's and friends they tried talking to my parents and couldn't succeed. She asked for help from her family people and it went to her parents again and things got more serious. Couple of colleagues advises love marriage. Am the only son for my parents and they are aged ! Learnt from my father not to leave parents by seeing the way he took good care of his parents when they were aged and sick. My parents need my support, On her bday she asked me a wish , that is to make her meet my parents for blessings on her bday. Which I did on the same day . And on my parents anniversary she joined the event. Slowly my parents started liking her . And then they said we have no problem in you getting married to that girl but it should be done with the girls parents acceptance. Which is not wrong when it comes to their end . It was a good sign for us and got some hope .
We both tried to talk to her mom but she didn't accept . She is one of the best person I met in my life. The way she use to care and respect me before knowing the matter was so good. Her mom also likes me for the way I am and the way I respect her family and the way I care her daughter.
And finally she said ye sab humare religion mein accept nai karte agar hum tujhe accept kare toh bhi humare society Hume accept nai karega and explaining me the conveniences that we have to face with the society to get married, and she was requesting me to forget her daughter.
What should i do guys . We want to get married with our parents acceptance.
Even if we change our minds and go for love marriage my girl has two younger sisters, unlog Ka future karab hoga bolke sochre. As all know how things go wrong when a girl comes out of home . We can't be happy by going away from home by spoiling the reputation of two families and future of two young girls.
It's not just I want to marry her , I love her family members too , I want to get into their family as a son and take good care of them too along with my parents.
They have started searching for matches .
Hope you guys can understand our situation.
Please seeking for some suggestions and help.
Will be very thankful for life time.
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